Earlier Is Not Always Better Recently I came across some material containing some alarming statistics I wish to pass along to every young parent. Because I have two girls and the older soon to start sixth grade, I find myself very cautious in regards to what is seeking to destroy young girls. The Executive Director for the Care Net Centers in Amarillo, Texas documented some alarming statistics regarding teenage pregnancy. When a girl begins dating in sixth grade, 91% of the time she will engage in the act of fornication by graduation. However, the percentage of girls committing fornication before graduation is reduced to 20% of the time, if the girl waits until she is in the tenth grade before beginning to date. It was also alarming to hear that the prime time that teenagers are committing fornication during the day is four P.M. (after school, and before parents get home from work). We must be so careful as parents about giving our children too many liberties too early. Surely we can see the dangers of granting our children various freedoms before they are mature enough to face the responsibilities that come with such liberties. It’s not a matter of being trustworthy, but one of being trust-ready. I’m equally as concerned about mothers who seem to be pushing their girls to grow up too soon. It’s obvious in the way these girls dress, the movies they’re allowed to watch, the music they’re listening to, and the apparent lack of supervision. Too often this is viewed as harmless fun, innocent “school girl” activity, or even cute. Be careful parents – the numbers tell a different story. Let’s not be deceived by Satan’s devices nor ignorant with reference to what our kids are doing and who their friends are. Remember, earlier is not always better. —Paul White

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