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Vol. 13, No. 10
December, 1976

BIG DADDY OR GROW UP?

Tab SpacerRemember the way you felt when your teenager took the family car on his first solo drive? You wanted him to become an independent driver; you knew he was big enough to drive, and you felt his knowledge of the mechanics of driving were sufficient — but could he handle that powerful machine?

Tab SpacerSometimes I have the feeling that truly independent congregations are about like that teenager. In earlier years Big Daddy was by their side — in the form of policy making papers, influential preachers, prevailing winds generated in colleges, etc. If some church had a problem, Big Daddy could answer it, and bring pressure to see that the answer stuck. Churches used the song books Big Daddy recommended, and were “Premillennial” if they did otherwise. They bought the literature Big Daddy sold, read the books he recommended, and branded as “digressive” or “anti” those whom Big Daddy reviewed as such. Don’t blame it all on Daddy! Sincere efforts to preserve soundness have been misused by immature churches, happy to be babied.

Tab SpacerBut developments of the past twenty-five years, resulting in “liberal-conservative” separation, have established a different clime among conservative churches. They have been made painfully aware of the danger of “Big Daddy” to their congregational independence. Sermons on institutional issues 

have persuaded them to think for themselves — ”you can drive solo!”

Tab SpacerDo you know of a single project among conservative brethren, necessitating a form of ”brotherhood” acceptance, but that is weak or has failed? At this point I am not questioning their legitimacy. I am simply saying that many conservative brethren have rejected “Big Daddy” centers of influence, legitimate or otherwise.

Tab SpacerThe results? A lot of bent fenders and some serious wrecks. “Independent churches” are running amuck in weird self-driving attempts; and concerned but frustrated former “centers of influence” are wringing their hands. Would it have been better to have encouraged a central “brotherhood paper” that (Sort of) kept brethren in line? Well, preachers have “gone off the deep end,” country-western music has invaded our singing, and foolish questions are dividing churches — but we are driving the road, independently. There are some fine independent churches, working at home, supporting foreign work, serving the Lord.

Tab SpacerWhere God’s plan seems to have failed, is it not possible that we are not spiritually mature enough to drive alone? Grow up brethren!!

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