We
see a mother trying to quiet her three young children during
worship and we are reassured of our wisdom in not having a
family. Or, we look at the struggling efforts of parents and
sigh with relief that all our children have "left the
coop." Yes, we are content to know that our present list of
responsibilities do not include "training up a child"
— or do they?
While
it is true that we are not obligated by New Testament teachings
to raise a family — this does not remove all responsibility in
the realm of child rearing. We may not have any children of our
own, or at least none still under our roof; yet we still must
encourage those who are actively engaged in raising their
children.
Elders
have a responsibility to parents in that they must inform them
of God's will in this area. The qualifications of elders,
including "apt to teach" and "one that ruleth
well his own house" (1 Tim. 3:2-4), make them good sources
of truth and advice. Elders must also be willing to discipline
ungodly members whose example and influence impede the efforts
of parents.
The
Bible class teacher can be a great help or hindrance in
"training up a child." When children inform their
parents that their teacher condones social drinking, dancing,
immodesty or even (would you believe it?) polygamy — its time
for a new Bible class teacher! Parents need teachers who love
God's word and are willing to live as well as teach
the truth.
