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Most
of us have known a "know it all" who delights in
catching errors and showing off his superiority. That is not a
likable trait. But all of us do make mistakes — and what is our
attitude toward someone who would like to help us correct them?
I
once wrote, "Erroneous teaching and practice will always be
present" — only, I had an "i" in the place of the
second "e". Then I wrote, "I do not claim infallibility"
— but I had only one "I" in the second syllable. The
printer caught both spelling errors; and what was my excuse? I
said this only proved that both of those statements were correct
— veritable gems of wisdom. And I add, it takes a smart man to
turn defeat into victory.
Yes,
we are reluctant to accept correction, even when it could help us
know God's word, or even save our soul. How sad that pride
can keep us from improving our own lot. We cut off our nose to
spite our face. Proverbs 13:16 says, "Every prudent man
worketh with knowledge, but a fool flaunteth his folly."
Again, "A fool despiseth his father's correction; But he that
regardeth reproof getteth prudence" (15:5). There is a
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true
correlation between wisdom and one's willingness to hear and evaluate
responsible criticism. Even when the rebuke is without foundation,
we learn how our work looks to others; and a moment of
self-inspection is useful.
I
am convinced we cripple our own growth and development by failing
to fairly evaluate adverse criticism. It is absurdly egotistic to
think no one could understand as well as ourselves, or that we
know as much or more than anyone else about any matter. And when
our conclusions are borrowed or "swallowed" from others
anyhow, we may be showing real sectarian bias.
It
is practically a cliché — but “Truth has nothing to fear from
investigation." Wouldn't it be wonderful if brethren who
differ could honestly investigate each other’s criticisms,
openly study the scriptures together? If "debate" could
be a genuine endeavor to test conclusions in the light of truth,
by men who wanted truth more than they wanted to "win"?
If we want it that way, we can have it so.
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