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In
the seven "woes" pronounced by Jesus in Matt. 23 are to
be found the most severe and scathing rebukes recorded in the
entire Bible. In His condemnation of these hypocritical scribes
and Pharisees, Jesus likens them unto whited sepulchers,
"...which outwardly appear beautiful, but inwardly are full
of dead men's bones, and of all uncleanness." Then He
continues, "Even so ye also outwardly appear righteous unto
men, but inwardly ye are full of hypocrisy and iniquity"
(V.27, 28).
Because
men are impressed and influenced by outward appearances (1 Sam.
16:7), and because we all like the approval of others, we must be
very careful not to play the role of the hypocrite. Our
righteousness must be more than appearance, it must be a way of
life. We must develop a consistency of character that is not
altered by circumstance or companions. We must avoid the mistake
of these scribes and Pharisees and not allow ours to become a
cosmetic religion—the kind that is seasonal and superficial and
dependent on appearances. And the place to begin cultivating
Christ-like character is in the heart and in the home.
Let's
face it! What a person is at home is what he is! Nowhere is
true character more obvious—no pretense, no false airs here. And
nowhere is a demonstration of spiritual character more needed!
Every wife needs the kind of husband who will heed God's
admonition to love her "as Christ also loved the church"
(Eph. 5:25); who will have regard for her needs, her interests and
her feelings. Many neglected and mistreated wives wish their
husbands were at home what they
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appear to be in public.
Likewise,
men have few earthly blessings to enrich their lives more than a
godly wife; one who manifests respect and subjection "as unto
the Lord" (Eph. 5:24,33). Her chaste behavior, shamefastness,
sobriety; her meek and quiet spirit and other such qualities
reflect an inward adornment highly valued by the Lord (1 Pet. 3; 1
Tim. 2)—and by the discerning husband! How regrettable that some
women have neglected such adornment in favor of the outward.
Regardless of what wives seem to be in public, when they cease to
be "keepers at home," they cease to please the Lord
(Titus 2:5). When women become indifferent to God given
responsibilities to husband and home, their religion merely
becomes a part of their outward adornment—and the entire family
suffers for it.
Consequently,
children are hurt immeasurably by parents who practice cosmetic
religion. Even little ones recognize the disparity between home
and "church-building" conduct—and, in later years will
not likely forget it. Parents would do well to begin every day
with a vivid and fresh recollection that God wants them to rear
their children for heaven! None helps or hinders their eternal
welfare more than mother and daddy. But mark it well! Bringing up
a child "in the nurture and admonition of the Lord" is
impossible!—for parents who do not live for the Lord. We must
put away religious hypocrisy! Let us make a start—from the heart—beginning
at home—today. Dan S. Shipley
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